Who We Are

PROMOTING FIRST RELATIONSHIPS (PFR) is a training program at Parent-Child Relationship Programs at the Barnard Center, at the University of Washington. We are dedicated to promoting children’s social-emotional development through responsive, nurturing caregiver-child relationships.

We train providers in our Home Visiting, Child Care and Pediatric clinic based models.

Providers learn practical, in-depth, effective strategies for promoting secure and healthy relationships between caregivers and young children (birth to 5 years).


Why Promoting First Relationships?

What is the Need for Promoting First Relationships Training?

There is substantial evidence that the foundation of emotional organization, attention regulation, and communicative skill emerges from early, pleasurable interactions with caregivers. All children are born into this world totally dependent on the relationships they develop with their parents and their caregivers, the people who are closest to them. These first relationships are the foundation for young children’s growth and development in social, emotional, behavioral, language and cognitive domains.

Features of the training program include:

  • Video recording caregiver-child interactions to provide insight into real-life situations.
  • Giving positive feedback that builds caregivers’ confidence and competence in their parenting.
  • Focusing on the deeper emotional feelings and needs underlying caregivers and children’s distress and behaviors.
  • Promoting a wondering stance in parents and caregivers through reflection and mindfulness.

A young child’s social and emotional development, that is a positive sense of self and of others, can only be developed in the context of relationships. Social and emotional development, or mental health, begins from the first day of life and future growth and experiences are based on what a young child internalizes about himself and others. “Children grow and thrive in the context of close and dependable relationships that provide love and nurturance, security, responsive interaction, and encouragement for exploration.” (From Neurons to Neighborhoods, 2000).

Young children need sensitive and secure relationships with the adults who are most important to them in order to grow in social-emotional, language and cognitive domains. By training providers to support parents and caregivers to be loving, responsive and tuned in to their children’s feelings and needs, we can achieve the desired goals: happy children who engage in trusting and caring relationships with others and are free to explore and learn about the world around them.

Diversity-Informed Tenets For Work With Infants, Children & Families

Promoting First Relationships endorses “The Tenets”. The Diversity-Informed Tenets for Work with Infants, Children and Families (Tenets) are a set of guiding principles and practices that strengthen the commitment and capacity of professionals, organizations and systems to embed diversity, inclusion and equity principles into their work with infants, children and families.

The Tenets help programs, organizations and systems of care benchmark their progress in embedding diversity, equity and inclusion into every aspect of individual and organizational practices and policies. They help launch the beginning of an ongoing, always-evolving conversation, about creating a more diverse, inclusive and equitable organization.